{"_id":"6a4fa6d230c0dd2783039d57","title":"{\"ops\":[{\"insert\":\"Should I attend social gatherings with the intention of positively influencing others?\\n\"}]}","question":"{\"ops\":[{\"insert\":\"I usually avoid many social gatherings because I do not see them as a high priority compared to other beneficial uses of my time. However, I have realized how much I personally benefited from the influence of righteous role models, and I wonder if I should attend some gatherings with the intention of having a positive influence on others who may be less practicing. If I do so while maintaining good company myself and being mindful of potential harms, would this be a good use of my time?\\n\"}]}","answer":"{\"ops\":[{\"insert\":\"If this is your intention, then it's something you should consider doing. As you do it, continuously monitor yourself to ensure you're not being negatively impacted by these environments.\\n\\nYou should limit the amount of time spent in these social settings. Always go with a clear purpose, and renew that intention every single time.\\n\\nMost importantly, never see yourself as anyone's savior. Always see yourself as the one who needs saving, and view these gatherings simply as a way for you to contribute goodness to the world, hoping to save yourself and elevate your standing with Allah.\\n\"}]}","tags":[{"_id":"668d9ff20b76658b4c2329d9","tag":"Worship: Intention","count":111},{"_id":"668da02b0b76658b4c232ff9","tag":"Relationships: Friend","count":56},{"_id":"6771f804780db971903c8df1","tag":"Relationships: Other","count":40}],"createdOn":"2026-07-09T13:49:06.065Z"}