{"_id":"68956874826ef9c491d8d4ed","title":"{\"ops\":[{\"insert\":\"How should I maintain family ties with someone who constantly puts me down?\\n\"}]}","question":"{\"ops\":[{\"insert\":\"I have a family member who is very loud and extroverted, and they often make negative comments about me to others, even about things that don’t concern me. These comments happen quickly and publicly, so I don’t have time to respond or clarify. When I try to confront them, they either blame me or ignore it depending on the state of our relationship. I’m starting to feel real resentment and hatred toward them, and it’s becoming very difficult to even face them. I know it’s wrong to hate another Muslim. How should I deal with this emotional distress while still keeping family ties?\\n\"}]}","answer":"{\"ops\":[{\"insert\":\"Try to find a way to speak with this family member when things are calm, so they can listen with an open mind and take your concerns seriously. If it’s hard to get through to them on your own, you might involve other trusted family members or friends who can help convey your feelings and encourage this family member to have a more understanding conversation with you.\\n\"}]}","tags":[{"_id":"668d9fe20b76658b4c23280c","tag":"Relationships: Extended Family","count":47}],"createdOn":"2025-08-08T03:01:08.491Z"}