{"_id":"686ebc1e557419c0f84be9ab","title":"{\"ops\":[{\"insert\":\"What are the etiquettes of lending money to others?\\n\"}]}","question":"{\"ops\":[{\"insert\":\"If someone wants to borrow money from you, is it okay to ask them what they need the money for? Is that inappropriate? How can I decide who I should lend money too and who I shouldn't? If I decide not to lend someone money, how can I turn them down without hurting them too much? Am I wrong to make assumptions about what people might be using the money for (for example, that they may want to go out with their girlfriend)?\\n\\nI'm hoping for an answer so that I can get better at dealing with other people.\\n\"}]}","answer":"{\"ops\":[{\"insert\":\"You should always strive to use your money for good , and you can’t do that unless you know where it’s going. That’s why it’s important to be mindful of who you give money to, and for what purpose.\\n\\nAs for turning someone down, be gentle but firm. Some disappointment is natural, but that doesn’t mean you’ve done wrong. The goal is to be selective about whom you lend to, and don’t hesitate to ask what the money is for. Unless you have reason to believe the person is dishonest, take their word at face value and avoid making assumptions.\\n\"}]}","tags":[{"_id":"668da0370b76658b4c233134","tag":"Worship: Charity","count":62},{"_id":"668da0130b76658b4c232d6d","tag":"Contemporary Life: Debt","count":16}],"createdOn":"2025-07-09T18:59:42.059Z"}