{"_id":"67f2a1c07528a2592fa900c7","title":"{\"ops\":[{\"insert\":\"I am a revert single muslim. My immediate family is Muslim but are not practicing. I am raising a 6 year old boy and instilling the discipline to practice inshaAllah, but he sees other family members eating Haram, not praying, etc. He says he wants to be like them and after asking why he said it’s because they eat haram.\\n\\n How do I go about this? \\n\"}]}","question":"{\"ops\":[{\"insert\":\"I am a revert single muslim. My immediate family is Muslim but are not practicing. I am raising a 6 year old boy and instilling the discipline to practice inshaAllah, but he sees other family members eating Haram, not praying, etc. He says he wants to be like them and after asking why he said it’s because they eat haram/do w/e they want.\\n\\n How do I go about this? I can’t live alone as I’m not independent enough to not get their support, and every time I speak to them or guide them they decline or disagree and argue. \\n\\nWhat are my options? \\n\\n\\n\"}]}","answer":"{\"ops\":[{\"insert\":\"May Allah bless you for your efforts in raising your son upon the right path. This is a test, but inshaAllah, with patience and wisdom, you can navigate it.  \\n\\nChildren are naturally drawn to what seems easy and enjoyable, so it's important to help him see the beauty and rewards of practicing Islam. Instead of focusing too much on what others are doing wrong, emphasize the blessings of halal living and the sweetness of obedience to Allah. Engage him with stories of the Prophets, righteous people, and even personal examples of how following Islam brings true happiness and peace.  \\n\\nSince you rely on your family for support and cannot move out, focus on controlling what you can—your home environment, your bond with your child, and your own consistency in practicing Islam. Try to create a positive, loving space where he associates Islam with warmth, joy, and purpose. Also, make du'a often, especially in moments of acceptance, that Allah guides both your son and your family.  A loving mother’s dua is extremely powerful.\\n\\nIf your family is not receptive to discussions about Islam, avoid direct confrontation and instead lead by example. Over time, your consistency and kindness may soften their hearts. In the meantime, try to connect your son with a good Muslim community—perhaps through the masjid, online programs, or righteous friends—so he sees others who practice Islam with love and conviction.  \\n\\nMay Allah make this easy for you and grant you the strength to raise your son as a strong and practicing Muslim.\\n\"}]}","tags":[{"_id":"67f2a1c07528a2592fa900c5","tag":"Parenting.","count":1}],"createdOn":"2025-04-06T15:46:08.755Z"}