{"_id":"67eebaba20e7dc3072c2ab96","title":"{\"ops\":[{\"insert\":\"What advice do you have for one who hates themselves immensely?\\n\"}]}","question":"{\"ops\":[{\"insert\":\"What advice would you give to someone who hates themselves immensely?\\n\"}]}","answer":"{\"ops\":[{\"insert\":\"May Allah ease your heart and fill it with His mercy. I don’t know what has led you to feel this way, but I want you to know that your worth is not measured by your own harsh self-judgment. You are a creation of Allah, and He did not create you without purpose. He fashioned you with care, brought you into existence, and sustains you each day, not because you are worthless, but because He sees value in you, even if you can’t see it yourself right now.  \\n\\nA wise person once said, \"},{\"attributes\":{\"italic\":true},\"insert\":\"“You do not own yourself to dictate what price you are worthy of being sold. Stop pricing God's merchandise.”\"},{\"insert\":\" We human beings forget our inherent self-worth as creatures of a perfect Being - One who is beautiful and loves beauty. We search for our worth in external achievements and fleeting worldly measures, forgetting the innate value Allah has already placed within us. As Rumi said, \"},{\"attributes\":{\"italic\":true},\"insert\":\"“You wander from room to room, hunting for the diamond necklace, that is already around your neck.”\"},{\"insert\":\"\\n\\nIf your feelings come from past mistakes, remember that Allah’s mercy is greater than any sin. If they stem from disappointment or self-doubt, know that your struggles do not define you. What defines you is your effort to keep going, to turn back to Allah, and to seek His help in healing.  \\n\\nTry to shift your focus from self-hatred to self-compassion. Imagine if someone you loved was feeling this way. How would you comfort them? Offer yourself that same kindness. Keep yourself close to Allah by remembering Him often, making duʿāʾ, and seeking comfort in His words. Surround yourself with people who remind you of your worth, and if needed, seek support from someone who can help you navigate these feelings. You are not alone, and you are not beyond hope. Allah sees your pain, and He is always near.\\n\\nMay He grant you healing, peace, and a heart that finds comfort in His love.\\n\"}]}","tags":[{"_id":"668da0320b76658b4c2330a7","tag":"Worship: Tazkiyyah","count":87}],"createdOn":"2025-04-03T16:43:38.144Z"}