{"_id":"67eeb97120e7dc3072c2ab81","title":"{\"ops\":[{\"insert\":\"How should I act towards my stepmother?\\n\"}]}","question":"{\"ops\":[{\"insert\":\"I have a stepmother. I barely see her because I live with my mother. I have no need for a stepmother and rarely talk to her.  I call her auntie, but my other siblings call her mom. Is it pertinent that I stay in contact with her or to talk to her? And does it matter what I call her? It does somewhat upset her that I don’t call or text.\\n\"}]}","answer":"{\"ops\":[{\"insert\":\"Maintaining ties with your stepmother falls under general good character and ihsan (excellence in conduct), especially if she is married to your father. While you may not feel a strong connection to her because you live with your mother, it is still good to be kind and acknowledge her presence in your life. Islam encourages us to uphold family ties and treat people with respect, even if the relationship is not particularly close. \\n\\nIt does not necessarily matter what you call her, as long as it is respectful. If calling her \\\"Auntie\\\" is what you are comfortable with, and it is not meant to be dismissive, then that should be fine. However, if she feels hurt by the lack of contact, a small effort on your part could go a long way in keeping peace and maintaining a good relationship, even if it's just an occasional message or greeting. This does not mean you must treat her the same way as your mother, but basic kindness and consideration are always encouraged.\\n\"}]}","tags":[{"_id":"668da0010b76658b4c232b9d","tag":"Relationships: Parent and Child","count":111},{"_id":"6771f804780db971903c8df1","tag":"Relationships: Other","count":35}],"createdOn":"2025-04-03T16:38:09.571Z"}