{"_id":"6771fbf3780db971903c8e0a","title":"{\"ops\":[{\"insert\":\"Is a woman/wife also obligated to work for her Rizq with regards to a livelihood and income?\"}]}","question":"{\"ops\":[{\"insert\":\"Since we are told to work for our rizq, does this mean a wife who chooses not to have a career and decides to be a “housewife” is at fault if something happens (husband passes, divorce, etc) and she ends up in poverty? Another similar question is if a wife feels the need to look for a job solely based on the fear of something bad happening years later, is this doubting in Allah’s ability to provide for her? Let’s say she feels the best when she is able to take care of the home, husband, and kids and does not want a career; is it unwise of her and basically asking for something bad to happen to her? Many people have expressed this idea and I couldn’t help but feel anxious and worry I’m being “lazy” in the eyes of Allah and not seeking my rizq. I’d like to know the proper way to think about this, and if I’m doing something wrong/harming myself?\"}]}","answer":"{\"ops\":[{\"insert\":\"In Islam, a wife is not obligated to earn a living or provide for the household; this responsibility rests upon the husband. If a woman chooses to dedicate herself to being a homemaker, caring for her family, and raising her children, she is fulfilling a noble role that Islam honors. To call her \\\"lazy\\\" or accuse her of not seeking her rizq has no foundation in the Sharīʿah. Rizq (sustenance) is decreed by Allah, and He has assigned specific roles and responsibilities to men and women. The rizq a wife receives through her husband is as much hers as if she earned it herself, because it is Allah who ultimately provides.\\n\\nThe idea that a woman must pursue a career to secure herself against potential future hardships often stems from societal pressures rather than Islamic teachings. While planning and taking precautions are wise, living in constant fear of hypothetical situations can detract from tawakkul (reliance on Allah). Fear of poverty should not drive decisions that conflict with what brings you peace and aligns with your Islamic values. The Prophet ﷺ said: “\"},{\"attributes\":{\"italic\":true},\"insert\":\"If you were to rely upon Allah with the reliance He is due, you would be provided for as the birds are: they go out in the morning hungry and return full.\"},{\"insert\":\"” [\"},{\"attributes\":{\"link\":\"https://sunnah.com/tirmidhi:2344\"},\"insert\":\"Tirmidhī 2344\"},{\"insert\":\"] This does not negate effort, but it reinforces that sustenance is ultimately in Allah’s control.\\n\\nIf you feel the best in your role as a homemaker and find contentment in fulfilling this role, you are not being unwise or irresponsible. Rather, you are choosing a path that aligns with your strengths and preferences, trusting Allah to provide for your needs through lawful means. Preparing for potential hardships is not wrong, but it should not stem from mistrust in Allah’s plan.\\n\\nAs for those who pressure women to shoulder both careers and family life, this is not an Islamic expectation. Islam values balance and fairness; the husband is tasked with financial provision, while the wife’s role, if she chooses, centers on nurturing the family. This complementary system ensures that neither spouse is overburdened.\\n\\nIn conclusion, you are not doing anything wrong or harming yourself by choosing to focus on your family. Trust in Allah, strive to fulfill your responsibilities to the best of your ability, and let go of undue worry about the future. Seek guidance through dua and stay confident that Allah will take care of your needs.\\n\\nI pray you find the following beneficial:\\nhttps://www.carolinaqa.com/tag/668d9ffb0b76658b4c232ade\\n\"}]}","tags":[{"_id":"668d9ffb0b76658b4c232ade","tag":"Marriage: Roles and Responsibilities","count":56},{"_id":"668d9fe00b76658b4c2327c8","tag":"Women: Other","count":52},{"_id":"668da0580b76658b4c2334b2","tag":"Knowledge: Aqeedah","count":38}],"createdOn":"2024-12-30T01:48:35.347Z"}