{"_id":"676e076ef8aaefc41a3421a0","title":"{\"ops\":[{\"insert\":\"How can one remain empathetic without being used by people?\"}]}","question":"{\"ops\":[{\"insert\":\"How would I deal with my empathetic heart in a proper way that would please Allah? People has been misused my empathy in a very selfish way. I don’t want to give up the gift Allah gave me but don’t want to exhaust it in people who doesn’t deserve it? So how can I make a better use of the gift? In what matters/work I should make use it?\"}]}","answer":"{\"ops\":[{\"insert\":\"The empathy Allah has blessed you with is indeed a precious gift, and protecting it while using it wisely is important. First, consider directing it towards actions that draw you closer to Allah, such as supporting family, friends, or community members who genuinely need and value it. Seek causes that align with helping the oppressed, the poor, or the sick—those in situations where your empathy becomes a means of gaining Allah’s pleasure.\\n\\nAlso, take time for self-care and reflection. Recognize that not everyone deserves the same access to your heart; establish boundaries to protect your well-being and allow you to help sustainably. This way, your empathy can stay a source of strength and not become a drain. Remember that sincerity and balance are key in ensuring your compassion is a path toward Allah’s pleasure. May Allah grant you wisdom and strength in this.\"}]}","tags":[{"_id":"668da0320b76658b4c2330a7","tag":"Worship: Tazkiyyah","count":87}],"createdOn":"2024-12-27T01:48:30.867Z"}