{"_id":"676c95da744ca1ad0327726d","title":"{\"format\":\"prosemirror\",\"schemaVersion\":1,\"doc\":{\"type\":\"doc\",\"content\":[{\"type\":\"paragraph\",\"attrs\":{\"quillBlock\":{},\"quillNewline\":{},\"quillTerminated\":true,\"direction\":null},\"content\":[{\"type\":\"text\",\"text\":\"Am I sinful for talking to a potential suitor in another country without a mahram present?\"}]}]}}","question":"{\"format\":\"prosemirror\",\"schemaVersion\":1,\"doc\":{\"type\":\"doc\",\"content\":[{\"type\":\"paragraph\",\"attrs\":{\"quillBlock\":{},\"quillNewline\":{},\"quillTerminated\":true,\"direction\":null},\"content\":[{\"type\":\"text\",\"text\":\"Is it a sin or displeasing to Allah ﷻ if I am talking to a guy about marriage without any wali or mahram supervision? We primarily communicate by messaging due to him being in another country. I had a talk with him about setting boundaries and we agreed to keep it formal in order to protect ourselves. Should I stop talking to him? I don’t have a wali or mahram to go to about this.\"}]}]}}","answer":"{\"format\":\"prosemirror\",\"schemaVersion\":1,\"doc\":{\"type\":\"doc\",\"content\":[{\"type\":\"paragraph\",\"attrs\":{\"quillBlock\":{},\"quillNewline\":{},\"quillTerminated\":true,\"direction\":null},\"content\":[{\"type\":\"text\",\"text\":\"With no wali/mahram, it doesn’t make it permissible to communicate with him in private, you still need a third party. You can appoint a respectable, upstanding Muslim male to serve as your wali and third party in the communication and marriage process, should it reach that stage.\"}]},{\"type\":\"paragraph\",\"attrs\":{\"quillBlock\":{},\"quillNewline\":{},\"quillTerminated\":true,\"direction\":null}},{\"type\":\"paragraph\",\"attrs\":{\"quillBlock\":{},\"quillNewline\":{},\"quillTerminated\":true,\"direction\":null},\"content\":[{\"type\":\"text\",\"text\":\"There are some similar questions on the website you may find beneficial as well:\"}]},{\"type\":\"paragraph\",\"attrs\":{\"quillBlock\":{},\"quillNewline\":{},\"quillTerminated\":true,\"direction\":null},\"content\":[{\"type\":\"text\",\"marks\":[{\"type\":\"link\",\"attrs\":{\"href\":\"https://www.carolinaqa.com/tag/668d9fdf0b76658b4c2327a6\",\"target\":null,\"rel\":null}}],\"text\":\"https://www.carolinaqa.com/tag/668d9fdf0b76658b4c2327a6\"}]}]}}","tags":[{"_id":"668d9fdf0b76658b4c2327a6","tag":"Marriage: Pre-Marriage","count":72},{"_id":"668d9fdf0b76658b4c2327a9","tag":"Relationships: Potential Spouse","count":45},{"_id":"668da08c0b76658b4c233a22","tag":"Wali","count":4}],"createdOn":"2024-12-25T23:31:38.311Z"}