{"_id":"674b749cfbb8e625bcf5c350","title":"{\"ops\":[{\"attributes\":{\"background\":\"transparent\",\"color\":\"#000000\"},\"insert\":\"How can I find my purpose in Islam again after abuse and depression?\"},{\"insert\":\"\\n\\n\"}]}","question":"{\"ops\":[{\"attributes\":{\"color\":\"#000000\",\"background\":\"transparent\"},\"insert\":\"I struggle with depression and often times find myself wishing not to be alive anymore or thinking that I do not deserve life. Unfortunately, I was abused many times, and when I look towards the future, I don’t find myself excited at all about life. I know that I’m incredibly lucky to be in the position I am in, but I am so scared of what is to come and I don’t think I’ll contribute anything meaningful to the world. \"},{\"insert\":\"\\n\\n\"},{\"attributes\":{\"color\":\"#000000\",\"background\":\"transparent\"},\"insert\":\"I know that Islam is my purpose in life, and that’s why I came to it in the first place. I try to do everything with true sincerity towards Allah, not anticipating any reward, but even then, I feel bad. Even when I hear the descriptions of Jannah, I am not as moved as I once was. I just don’t look forward to anything. \"},{\"insert\":\"\\n\\n\"},{\"attributes\":{\"color\":\"#000000\",\"background\":\"transparent\"},\"insert\":\"How might I be able to regain my purpose in Islam again? That’s the one thing that guides my life and my only purpose, but when I dread living, it becomes very hard. How I should go about my submission to Allah and dealing with my mentality and such?\"},{\"insert\":\"\\n\\n\"},{\"attributes\":{\"color\":\"#000000\",\"background\":\"transparent\"},\"insert\":\"Relatedly, how should I get rid of resentment for my parent? They have a disorder that has caused them to say harsh things to me and treat me in a very harsh manner. I know a lot of my success as a Muslim and my relationship with God depends on how well I treat my parents. I love them, but I’ve built resentment and I’m struggling with getting rid of it. I’ve tried reading the Quran and making duaa and dhikr, but nothing seems to get rid of it completely. \"},{\"insert\":\"\\n\"}]}","answer":"{\"ops\":[{\"attributes\":{\"color\":\"#000000\",\"background\":\"transparent\"},\"insert\":\"Allah (SWT) says,\"},{\"insert\":\"\\n\"},{\"attributes\":{\"color\":\"#000000\",\"background\":\"transparent\",\"bold\":true},\"insert\":\"\\\"Did you deem We created you without purpose in vain, and that never to Us would you be returned?\\\" [\"},{\"attributes\":{\"link\":\"https://quran.com/23/115\",\"color\":\"#000000\",\"background\":\"transparent\",\"bold\":true},\"insert\":\"23:115\"},{\"attributes\":{\"color\":\"#000000\",\"background\":\"transparent\",\"bold\":true},\"insert\":\"]\"},{\"attributes\":{\"indent\":1},\"insert\":\"\\n\"},{\"attributes\":{\"color\":\"#000000\",\"background\":\"transparent\",\"bold\":true},\"insert\":\"\\\"Verily, Allah loves those who trust in Him.\\\" [\"},{\"attributes\":{\"link\":\"https://quran.com/3/159\",\"color\":\"#000000\",\"background\":\"transparent\",\"bold\":true},\"insert\":\"3:159\"},{\"attributes\":{\"color\":\"#000000\",\"background\":\"transparent\",\"bold\":true},\"insert\":\"]\"},{\"attributes\":{\"indent\":1},\"insert\":\"\\n\"},{\"attributes\":{\"color\":\"#000000\",\"background\":\"transparent\",\"bold\":true},\"insert\":\"\\\"And Allah loves the truly steadfast.\\\" [\"},{\"attributes\":{\"link\":\"https://quran.com/3/146\",\"color\":\"#000000\",\"background\":\"transparent\",\"bold\":true},\"insert\":\"3:146\"},{\"attributes\":{\"color\":\"#000000\",\"background\":\"transparent\",\"bold\":true},\"insert\":\"]\"},{\"attributes\":{\"indent\":1},\"insert\":\"\\n\"},{\"insert\":\"\\n\"},{\"attributes\":{\"color\":\"#000000\",\"background\":\"transparent\"},\"insert\":\"My dear brother, it's crucial to understand that Allah ﷻ has chosen your existence over non-existence, bringing you into this world with a purpose. You belong to Allah alone; His boundless love for you is immeasurable, blessing you with the greatest gift of all—faith. Only Allah can determine your true value; your ultimate return will be to your Merciful and Loving Lord. He will compensate you for every insult, abuse, hateful word, scornful look, sorrow, and tear. Once you experience Paradise, the suffering you endured will vanish from your memory. This is what your Compassionate Lord has in store for you. All you need to do is maintain hope in your Lord, turn to Him for all your needs, and beseech Him to strengthen your faith, resolve, and perseverance.\"},{\"insert\":\"\\n\\n\"},{\"attributes\":{\"color\":\"#000000\",\"background\":\"transparent\"},\"insert\":\"Remember that you are not at fault for the abuse you've endured. Be grateful to Allah for safeguarding your faith during these trials. The hardships experienced by believers are not indicative of Allah's displeasure. If that were the case, the prophets and messengers wouldn't have endured such immense hardship. Instead, the suffering of believers is a means to purify, bring them closer to their Lord, and elevate their status.\"},{\"insert\":\"\\n\\n\"},{\"attributes\":{\"color\":\"#000000\",\"background\":\"transparent\"},\"insert\":\"At this point in your life, do not dwell on what you can offer to the world, the uncertainties of the future, or letting go of resentment. Focus on the present moment, which requires you to stand resolute and hopeful in the Love, Mercy, and Wisdom of your Lord. Concentrate on healing your wounds and continuing your journey to your Lord, for the journey itself is the purpose. It is a quest to acquire knowledge of our Lord and worship Him as He has prescribed, all in preparation for the inevitable day when we shall return to Him. This journey unfolds one day at a time. Leave the past behind, as it cannot be relived, and don't worry about the future, for it's yet to come and not guaranteed. Stay dedicated to this mission, and you will find peace in your heart and soul. In this state, resentment will fade, and fear of the future will dissipate.\"},{\"insert\":\"\\n\\n\"},{\"attributes\":{\"color\":\"#000000\",\"background\":\"transparent\"},\"insert\":\"Recite the following dhikr abundantly:\"},{\"insert\":\"\\n\"},{\"attributes\":{\"color\":\"#000000\",\"background\":\"transparent\",\"italic\":true},\"insert\":\"لا إِلَهَ إِلَّا أَنْتَ سُبْحانَكَ إِنِّي كُنْتُ مِنَ الظَّالِمِين \"},{\"insert\":\"\\n\"},{\"attributes\":{\"color\":\"#000000\",\"background\":\"transparent\",\"italic\":true},\"insert\":\"La ilaha illa anta subhanaka inni kuntu min az-zalimin\"},{\"insert\":\"\\n\\n\"},{\"attributes\":{\"color\":\"#000000\",\"background\":\"transparent\"},\"insert\":\"Additionally, recite \"},{\"attributes\":{\"color\":\"#000000\",\"background\":\"transparent\",\"link\":\"https://quran.com/en/ayatul-kursi\"},\"insert\":\"Ayat al-Kursi\"},{\"attributes\":{\"color\":\"#000000\",\"background\":\"transparent\"},\"insert\":\", \"},{\"attributes\":{\"color\":\"#000000\",\"background\":\"transparent\",\"link\":\"https://quran.com/en/ash-sharh\"},\"insert\":\"Surat al-Inshirah\"},{\"attributes\":{\"color\":\"#000000\",\"background\":\"transparent\"},\"insert\":\", \"},{\"attributes\":{\"color\":\"#000000\",\"background\":\"transparent\",\"link\":\"https://quran.com/en/al-ikhlas\"},\"insert\":\"Surat al-Ikhlas\"},{\"attributes\":{\"color\":\"#000000\",\"background\":\"transparent\"},\"insert\":\", \"},{\"attributes\":{\"color\":\"#000000\",\"background\":\"transparent\",\"link\":\"https://quran.com/en/al-falaq\"},\"insert\":\"Surat al-Falaq\"},{\"attributes\":{\"color\":\"#000000\",\"background\":\"transparent\"},\"insert\":\", and \"},{\"attributes\":{\"color\":\"#000000\",\"background\":\"transparent\",\"link\":\"https://quran.com/en/al-nas\"},\"insert\":\"Surat al-Nas\"},{\"attributes\":{\"color\":\"#000000\",\"background\":\"transparent\"},\"insert\":\" after every prayer.\"},{\"insert\":\"\\n\\n\"},{\"attributes\":{\"color\":\"#000000\",\"background\":\"transparent\"},\"insert\":\"I strongly advise seeking professional counseling, as Allah commands us to utilize effective means while placing our trust in Him alone.\"},{\"insert\":\"\\n\"},{\"attributes\":{\"color\":\"#000000\",\"background\":\"transparent\"},\"insert\":\"May Allah bless you, alleviate your troubles, increase your faith, strengthen your determination, and safeguard you and all of us from harm.\"},{\"insert\":\"\\n\\n\\n\"}]}","tags":[{"_id":"686c05975bca77ccedff9483","tag":"Health: Mental & Emotional","count":28},{"_id":"686c08e55bca77ccedff968c","tag":"Unseen: The Afterlife","count":5}],"createdOn":"2024-11-30T20:25:00.387Z"}