{"_id":"668da0bd0b76658b4c233f5c","title":"{\"ops\":[{\"insert\":\"Can I deny a potential spouse for following people of the opposite gender on social media?\\n\"}]}","question":"{\"ops\":[{\"insert\":\"Recently I started to develop feelings for a brother who is somewhat well known within the community. However, I looked him up on Instagram and found out that he follows and is followed by a lot of people and specifically a lot of women. It’s not celebrities or random women, it seems mostly like other women in the community. Even so, it's made me uncomfortable. \\n\\nIs my feeling unreasonable? He is well known, and I know he has some Muslimah friends and acquaintances. However, it bothers me to think that he may be following all of these women on Instagram and has access to their pictures. I do not think he is malicious, so I feel somewhat bad that such a small thing as Instagram followers has turned me off from him. But I cannot shake the feeling that this is not right.\\n\"}]}","answer":"{\"ops\":[{\"insert\":\"Your feeling is very reasonable. I don't think it should be dismissed as a small thing. Sometimes we turn a blind eye and dismiss things, only to face consequences later on.\\n\"}]}","tags":[{"_id":"668d9ff10b76658b4c2329d2","tag":"Relationships: Opposite Gender","count":80},{"_id":"668d9fdf0b76658b4c2327a9","tag":"Relationships: Potential Spouse","count":44},{"_id":"668da0120b76658b4c232d5e","tag":"Contemporary Life: Social Media","count":26}],"createdOn":"2024-07-09T20:42:37.776Z"}