{"_id":"668da0660b76658b4c233633","title":"To what extent is it permissible for a sister to show interest in a brother for marriage?","question":"To what extent is it permissible for a sister to show interest in a brother for marriage? For example if a sister is interested in a brother in the community and thinks he may be interested in her but is unsure and knows that he likely won’t do anything unless he knows the feelings are mutual-would it be permissible to send a third party to let him know? And what would be the best way of going about that if one doesn’t want the painful embarrassment of not having their feelings shared by the other individual.","answer":"There's no issue with having a third party convey your feelings. If the sentiment isn't reciprocated, there's no need to feel embarrassed, bad, or rejected. Emotions are beyond our control; we can't force ourselves to feel a certain way about someone. It doesn't imply any judgment about your character; it simply means there isn't a mutual connection. Embrace this truth to spare yourself unnecessary anguish. Also, avoid self-blame, anger, or resentment toward the other person.","tags":[{"_id":"668d9fdf0b76658b4c2327a6","tag":"Marriage: Pre-Marriage","count":68},{"_id":"668d9fdf0b76658b4c2327a9","tag":"Relationships: Potential Spouse","count":44}],"createdOn":"2024-07-09T20:41:10.554Z"}