{"_id":"668da03b0b76658b4c2331a3","title":"When is it permissible to cut family ties?","question":"Are there any cases in which is it Islamically permissible to cut family ties without infringing on their rights? For example, in the case of constant verbal and emotional abuse from an elder blood relative. Over the span of 10 years, we have made multiple failed attempts at clearing the animosity. At what point are we allowed to cut family ties without fear of Allah's wrath?","answer":"In Islam, everyone is entitled to certain rights, and one fundamental right is the right to safeguard oneself from harm. Although we have obligations towards our parents, relatives, and fellow Muslims, they are not permitted to inflict harm upon us. Verbal and emotional abuse can be damaging, and you have the right to protect yourself from such mistreatment. While this principle applies broadly, without knowing the intricacies of your circumstances, I cannot provide a specific solution. However, I recommend taking steps to minimize opportunities for abuse without completely severing ties. If you have explored all possible solutions and continue to experience abuse, you have the right to communicate to your relative that, for your well-being, you are cutting off contact with them but you leave the door open for them to mend the situation if they so choose.","tags":[{"_id":"668d9fe20b76658b4c23280c","tag":"Relationships: Extended Family","count":47}],"createdOn":"2024-07-09T20:40:27.262Z"}